Monday, May 19, 2003

Sexual Revolution


Feminism male chauvinism sexism sexual communism...

Equality libido sexual roles machismo...

Breadwinner ballbreaker head of the table whatever...

Damsel in distress stereotypes stress...


Sexual roles and stereotypes are reversing and melting into each other as the boundaries between are disappearing.

Is it just me or are men really looking for more commitment nowadays and women choosing to stay single longer. And why is it that as time passes men are becoming more and more emotional as compared to women... progression or regression, which is which and who is who? In my family my mother is the stronger personality, my father the caring and showy side. Most of my friends aren't exactly the player types, and at least three or four of us have been given the runaround by a girl or two. So what's happening really? A friend of mine once said that over time men will be reduced to just a reproductive commodity and nothing else. I seem to be meeting more women who do not have real plans of settling down, maybe just living together.

That is if they decide that men are worth the try.

Most just opt to play around.

I've had potential relationships that have just faded into nothingness. A month or two together, fooling around but not really taking each other seriously. Sharing lives, sharing secrets and dreams. Making out and making up. But not really moving forward.

If you consider commitment as moving forward.

As of now I don't even know if I want to be in a relationship... there are the occassional dates and occassional... somethings... I'm just taking things as they come my way. But not everything (lest you think that I'm a sponge) though.

Maybe I don't want to commit. Maybe I don't want the complications and responsibilities of a relationship. I'd rather stay single and play the field than have some shitty relationship with some shitty person with shitty values and thinks I'm full of shit. But I do admit that sometimes it would be nice to have something in life that's 'sure'

On the other hand, it is nice to stay single and live a life free from the complexities of another person.


Anyway...

Sexual roles are reversing and stereotypes are melting into each other. We are at the forefront of a sexual revolution that has long been overdue in Philippine culture. Men are getting in touch with their emotional sides and women are learning to stand up for themselves and get what they want. Women are now more free (to what extent I'm not so sure) to do what they want with their lives. More men are understanding that their egos don't have to be right all the time.

The world is changing and so are we.

Actually, I find it interesting... but right now I think I'll just sit back and watch from the comfort of a lounge chair and bottle of Tequilla... away from the melting pot.






















Hormones


Your smell makes me horny.

My smell? I smell? What smell?

Lol No... nothing like that. More like your basic smell. Your natural.

Hmmm, I guess that's why what happened happened...

Yeah. You're bad for me.

I am?

Yup. You make me horny even if I don't want to.

Well, you don't exactly make me want to stay behaved...

You're a guy dummy... guys are never behaved.

LOL

*******

Yes my friends, smell is a strong factor in attraction.